I was at my friend's apartment yesterday and we were looking at the pictures shehad stored on her computer. I ran across a girl who as absolutely gorgeous. She had a nice shape, dressed well, and was a dancer at a strip club. This girl was actually involved with one of our mutual friends which seemed about right because she fit his "type": light skin, long weave. So it was no surprise that they had relations at some point. I so a bunch of pictures of them together kissing, sucking, and licking all over each other. Typical of him lol. So I inquired to see why they stopped talking and why he didn't have anything nice to say about her besides the fact that she had good sex.
My friend: She didn't have her s**t together
Me: What do you mean?
Her: She dances and then takes all the money she makes and blows it at the club. She doesn't have her own place. She has a son that doesn't live with her and who she rarely sees. She borrows money from people and never pays them back. I haven't talked to her since January. She moved and still owes me money.
This is something I have always pondered:
Why can't people BE what they SEEK?
You expect a man to take care of you, trust you, and be built like a Greek god. What exactly are you doing to to set yourself apart from the millions of other beautiful women in the world? A man will see pretty faces everyday so what else can you offer besides your looks? Good sex only gets you so far.
Ladies set yourself apart! Read a book sometimes. Get up on world events so you can have more to talk about than what celebrity is pregnant.
A man will say he wants a "good girl", with no kids, a model figure, pretty face, doesn't lie, minimum sexual partners, etc. But this will be the same guy that has slept with everybody in your city and the surrounding areas, lies about everything, has about 2 kids, mediocre face, and an average body. What exactly makes you so deserving of this ideal woman? What exactly are you bringing to the table besides your meat if that is even up to par?? And like I said before, good sex only gets you so far.
Fellas please realize that just because a girl is gorgeous doesn't mean she doesn't bleed every month like other chicks or that she doesn't have bowel movements on the regular. She's still human!
Song currently in rotation: Ambitious Girl-Wale
Ambitious girl, you just wanna win,
and you'd rather chase your dreams,
then to try to chase these men
that try to chase these skirts
that try to chase these shots with flavors not even as sweet as her...
